How do I fix a relationship that was going strong and then just suddenly crashed and burned?
by admin on Saturday, January 30th, 2010 | 4 Comments
My relationship was going well and then it plummeted. It was a long distance relationship but it was going so well and strong for 7 months and then crashed. I would give anything to get her back and I really need some advice.
well it depends on what you mean by long distance. if you mean like different universities then obviously she liked all the college guys.
if you have never meet the chick then obviously that wouldnt have worked out
be more specific when you say long distance
Depends on why you broke up. I would say there is no point in returning back to a long distance relationship if neither of you has plans to be together; it’s only a short term situation, not a desirable long term one. I would say that you should move on and find someone near you.
IMO, long distance relationships are very hard to sustain long term. At first you can get a boost from the excitement of that initial period, Then there can be a triggering incident that decreases the excitement or simply a slow drift into reality, leading to a shift in the relationship. It think that if the connection is “real” (not just a whirlwind short-term romance that lost steam), then consistent long-term contact, no matter how small, could put you in the position to re-kindle the romance when the time is better. Also, if you’re willing and able to make a significant sacrifice, you could choose to move to the place where the other party lives. Good Luck!
If you really would do anything, I suggest you start by going to see her and try and work things out. Long distance relationships are hard, but don’t let anybody ever tell you they can’t work out.
My girlfriend/wife and I were in a long distance relationship for more than three years, and we’re in one again. It sucks big time, but it’s definitely still worth it.
I suggest you try and figure out what exactly led to the breakup. Dig deep. If it’s something one of you said, dig deeper still and find out what led to that being said.
Relationships, and especially long distance relationships are about three main things: Communication, commitment and trust. It takes a lot of all three of those to make a relationship work.