How do you know when your wife is cheating on you?
by admin on Wednesday, February 24th, 2010 | 7 Comments
Been have a problem with my wife spending alot of time with her guy friend but she said that they are just friends we are deployed together but at separte bases an i just dont like tha fack that they watch movies together what do you think?
WHEN YOUR NOT GETTING NONE …..THAT COULD BE A SIGN !!!
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Ask her about what’s going on and then tell her how you feel about their relationship. Sounds a little dangerous, but if she is deployed she probably doesn’t have many people to talk to and get close to?
Good luck
check her email, phone calls, text messages, voice mails..if she is on your bill you can call the company and ask them to send you a cd of all her convos for that month… You can even hire a private detective to take pictures of her day..If you are really suspicious tell her you are going away for a business trip for a day and then stay in town and hire a detective to take pictures…IF she is with someone then she would most likely bring him home…I hope she’s not! They might be JUST FRIENDS..but shes not a teenager anymore…she has YOU to go to the movies with..she doesn’t need her guy friend..
I can understand why it would bother you. I wouldn’t like it if my husband was watching movies with one of his female friends. I wouldn’t say it is a sign of cheating though. There has to be so many more indicators there in order to call it that.
I would just be upfront and honest with her. Ask her if she would be okay with it if you were to watch movies with one of your female friends. Sometimes people just don’t realize how bad something looks until they see it from the other persons viewpoint.
Should you tell her to stop? No, I wouldn’t go that far because she is going to do what she wants and if you tell her that, she might feel like you are parenting her and it might backfire. It’s okay to tell her how you feel as long as you don’t accuse her of cheating. I hope this helps. Good luck to you. She should have known that wouldn’t go over too great.
1. Just Relax and give story to your wife like : dear, Yesterday I watch movies and i found that my friend watch with another girl taht allready maried, I’m Worried about them.
I agree with you. We don’t often hear about “mens instincts”, you know we hear about a “womens intuition” more often than a mans. It is clearly not appropriate for her to have any “close” male friends as she is a married women, she is your wife. That’s all. It’s not very complicated at all except that people want to make it seem so.
There are many “avenues” you could take regarding your suspicions, first of all since you are both military and deployes on seperate bases this means that you yourself can not condut “covert surveillance” of the pair. I believe that discovering the truth is the most important thing, that is why it is said the “The truth that you KNOW will set you free”. If we don’t know the truth than we are not “free”.
Left to ponder in our hearts and minds wether or not our wifes/husbands are screwing someone else is no kind of life. So, in order to move forward you may consider speaking privately to the base Chaplin. Adultery is serious and you may find some support from the Chaplan, at the least agree in prayer with the Chaplan that God will reveal the truth to you and ask GOD to protect your wifes virtue and your marriage.
Would it be possible for you to schedule a “visit” to her…you should have s*x with her and take mental “notes” of wether or not she acts different. Also, make yourself known to this other man. Do it smartly. The best thing to do would be to “enlist” some one who is on her base to assist you in “watching” these two. Perhaps you could go on-line with a different name and make “contact” with someone who will help you.
Of course a Private Detective would be nice however you are deployed and that may not be a viable option so I would make your suspicians known to her and let her know that you do not approve of her spending time with a man at all. She must respect her husband, after all If the wife does not/will not respect her husband then a marriage can not survive. That’s all, sad but true.
Don’t forget to tell her that you love her and remind her of your plans for the future, when the moment is right just point blank ask her If she is sleeping with him. Tell her that it would mean the end of your marriage.
well when you know that you did not have enough time for her expectations or her expectations from a husband are high… and that now she is slowly losing her interest in your home and marriage… she wishes to stay out more and more…