My dilemma with this girl I met online, and virgo/libra love compatibility?
I met this girl on a social networking site. We’ve known each other since the beginning of August and have stayed in touch but pretty infrequent up until, I’d say, two weeks ago. She said to me a few days ago, “from the moment I first talked to you I felt something different.” She’s been feeding me a lot of compliments. I’ve never really talked to a girl as straightforward as her. I’ve been really nice and caring towards her and she sees that I’m a positive person. We’ve gotten along really well with each other. She has now begun asking questions about how many girlfriends I’ve had, reasons for break up, if we still keep in touch (her response when I said no was good), etc. Not soon after, she asked for my personal phone number and has called me several times already. The times we’ve talked it’s been ok, but I just don’t feel the same vibe I get from her when I’m speaking to her online. She seems to have a good personality over the phone but the connection doesn’t seem there. It feels more like a friendship–i.e. how was your day, talks a little about her day, and not much about what you’d expect from someone who’s interested in you. Albeit we haven’t spoken for long when we’ve talked over the phone. I don’t know, maybe I’m expecting too much too soon. Oh, and yes, before I forget to mention, she’s from Taiwan and I live here in the U.S. Just to add a few more details about her, she was born on Oct. 14 (libra), 22 yrs. old, seems to be a little flirtatious and straightforward when projecting her feelings esp. online. I on the other hand am not and my birthday is on the 4th of Sept (virgo); 24 years old. It’s not easy for me share my feelings even though my feelings are growing more for her. Anyone have experience with online dating (what I can expect, how I should project my feelings from such far distances, how it translates in real life), love compatibilities/what to expect from a libra, virgo relationship? I really need help with this situation? Sorry for the long write up, just looking for some help! Thanks so much for the advice!!
You can’t honestly base relationships off of astrological signs.
My sentiments exactly, Chad.
first off, love doesn’t care about what sign you are so scrap that idea lol I think it’s great that you found a girl you can really open up to, she is obviously different from the others
I met my husband online and we were literally across the world from each other. I was in Canada and he was in Australia and after a week of talking he bought a plane ticket to come visit me, one month later he was in Canada with an engagement ring ..when you know you just know!! We’ve now been together for over 2 years and planning to start a family next year. It takes sacrifices but it’s defiantly worth it!!
you cant base your love life onw hen you were born thats just stupid… people talk differently onlone or through txting thant hey do in real life i think everyone dopes
As long as both you and your girly truly like eachother, then star signs shouldn’t matter. If you both like eachother keep the relationship buts only have an online relationship if you know you are eventually going to meet and that it will eventually lead to something. I am in an online relationship and it will be a while till we meet buts we keep talking and telling eachother our feelings, we have our ups and downs too, I think the most important advise I could give you is to keep your talking to a minimum, I mean not all day every day kind of talk coz in real life relationships alot of your time isn’t talking alot of your time is spending time together, probably more time is spening time together than actually talking, I’m saying this coz we have had a problem of talking alll day everyday which means even though we love eachother there isn’t alot left to talks aboust when we talk allllllll day…lolz, so give eachother a little time to miss eachother, also make sure she has a web cam to make sure she really is the person she says she is. Just something to watch outs for too, and I’m not saying she is buts some people in those kinds of countries like thats, try and make a relationship with people from the US, UK, Australia etc and would do anything to gest ins so just make sure you watch outs that she isn’t using you to gest in your country. Hope this helps. :]
I can only speak for myself and I am a female libra and my bday is Oct 13th. Personally I do tend to be flirtatious when I am not in a relationship… Heck I even find myself flirting with guys Im not even attracted to. Once in a relationship though I am committed. I am also very direct with my feelings although I am not much of a phone person. When it comes to long distant relationships, it would never work for me. Also the digging into backgrounds is not one of my libra traits cause I would rather not know. Libras a very feel in the moment types… past n future dont really matter… its all about how we feel in the present. Every virgo that I have talked to on the interpersonal level, has left me feeling empty and pretty pissed because they haven’t been direct with their feelings. In my experience they tend to lie about them verbally, but show their true colors in their actions…whether good or bad. I dunno… It was never a good mix.