I would like to increase my boyfriends love for me. How do I do this? What is a better strategy: to be a little stand offish, let a few days go before seeing him, not calling him everyday, being busy when he wants to see me, Or should I be available, tell him my feelings, be physically affectionate. Or should i just be myself and not worry about playing this silly game. I prefer the second approach but have always been told men like the chase. Is this true? Or only true initially but then tire of the chase and want to know you love him? Any tips men?