i am a 28 yo doctor (i just finished my residency). i was dating a nurse for a short time and she dumped me. i really liked her and tried to get her back, but she is now dating someone else. i asked her what happened and that i cant seem to keep any girl for any amount of time. she is still my friend and basically told me that i am a very unconfident man, and she just didnt find that attractive. she then goes on to say that she is suprised that i am not confident, saying that i have accomplished more than most men. she told me that i am very handsome, muscular and a well off physician, and she never understood why i was so unconfident.

what traits does a confident man have that a non-confident man not have?

i dont want to be alone all my life, i am lonely now, and dont want this anymore. i want to know also what i can do to be more confident–but please tell me what i asked be4 that is what traitrs a confident man has that a non-confident man not have–thanks