PLEASE READ ALL AND HELP! im 20 and was with this girl for about 2 years. after a couple weeks of dating she kissed another guy and its been a struggle to get trust and back off since. it didnt get in the way of our feelings or anything like that we had great memories and loved eachother alot. around xmas time we broke up on her call because its not what she wanted. i spent a week or two in the jealous stage where i was bugging her and she got mad and was being mean so i got pissed and just left her alone. shes telling me now she doesnt want to get back together but she wants to chill and stuff. now that would be fine for me if i knw she would be faithful(which i know were not dating so she doesnt need to be) and another problem is that i would want to see her mre than the once in a while she is talking about. if i dont text her for a day two or three she eventually says i miss you or just starts talking to me again. my frusteration is i need her to give it another shot or at least slowly workk on things. i mean i dont know if i should do what she wants or just all together ignore her for more than just a day or two. she says she misses me and everything but she doesnt know if we still have it. which i feel is just because its been over a month since we speant time together. so i guess my basic question is do i send a big text saying something and spilling my heart to her than ignore her for a long time or what? what im trying to do is not change her mind but get her to really see that were important, she knows it just not enoggh.idk if thats possible without even seeing her. i just dont want to be friends like she wants and i know she will realizr that just gotta know what to do,i prefer this answer to be from a girl who knows what i mean or a guy who has had the same problem. not some random guess because i could do that. this girl means the world to me and im doin everything i can. PLEASE HELP ASAPPP in detail. thank u so very much in advance, all answers help out more than you will know, im going crazy
she will say idk if feelings are there…its been a month since weve kissed cuddled sex anything like that. even hung out. i think that dims it down too but i gotta get her to realize that. and if she does start talking i should ignore her more than a couple days..? maybe a week?