So I’d like to keep myself from getting attached in a relationship. I think that my attachment might scare her away for whatever reason, also mainly I don’t want to put myself in a position to get hurt. Any suggestions to a mindset to help me out?
I’m decent at being a loner I guess. Kinda like a small camel -.-” I can make it for quite some time but then you get that moment where you need something. The problem is, I feel a constant need to be in a relationship, but I’m also quite jealous and I guess paranoid because I’m in constant fear that they will cheat on me even if I have nothing to back it up with. I’ve never been cheated on or cheated before, but I’m just scared to get hurt.

And I know the whole ‘if she’s the one that’s what love is, exposing yourself.’ But I’m not asking for that, I’m asking for help on building walls and going through the motions. The ability to shrug it off if it goes sour.